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About phlewis27

I’m an International Health Coach and an expert in helping 45-65 year old executives live a healthier and longer life

A Year To Remember

2015…From The Horse to The Year Of The Goat…The year of Possibility.

December 31st, 2016… you want to be able to state: I accomplished that…and some!

A whole year is a wild run, unless you stay ahead of your objectives, and do so…passionately. Every month, week, day, keep at the forefront of your mind Your Endpoint Objectives (and for goodness sake, write them down), knowing fully well that any curve ball will be met with a home run, as you diligently pre-prepare. Never lose sight of the path and remain steadfast in your resolve. At the conclusion of this year you are not going to look back and say “Here I am again”.

Like any elite athlete, precondition yourself to win, by asking yourself:

What are going to be my defining moments?

What is it going to take to keep on track?

What is my end of year statement of achievement?

A year from now you want to be able to say: January was my defining month, keeping in mind that…it’s NEVER too late to accomplish greatness, however you define it!

Have an extraordinary January 2015.

– Paul

Executive Velocity

Getting things done means prioritizing. Too much velocity and you miss a beat.

I was told as a kid to take my time and choose wisely. The average response: Sure! I would then go about what I was doing, the way I was doing it…without much thought.

Our lives are often fraught with decisions needing rapid responses. As Executives, we like to make our decisions as rational as possible, though often succumb to lack of time. The velocity at which we process can often cause us to gasp for air, sapping our energy, until we slump into a downward spiral.

Staying on top of your game means designating time to regroup and restructure how you process. Go, go, go…and you are left with wasted energy and confusion.

2015 is approaching…don’t take the same approach. Take yourself to task!

A daily dose of de-stressing is akin to a daily holiday and greater productivity. When you are wound-up, confront it face-to-face by winding down.

University of Illinois psychology professor Alejandro Lleras: prolonged attention to a single task actually hinders performance

Overwhelming Velocity, without a diversion = Diminishing returns

2015…Own It!

Calm while being productive

An Executive functioning in todays world can be  an overwhelming venture. Calmness and peace of mind while being productive and growing, as elusive as this might appear, should be your mantra.

I’ve not always been calm and at times frustration can still rear its ugly head. When I do present with good peace of mind and disposition, I’m a force to be reckoned with: in control of my actions, confident, self-assured and present.

Productivity and growth come from a solid foundation, not resentment and anger. As an accomplished individual you are seeking performance optimization, and as a professional you need to be on top of your game, in control of every situation and potential confrontation.

You might be pre-conditioned (genetically) to react rather than respond, though this is no excuse, when the critical piece of the equation is: you can control your internal environment, by training a calmer and more productive mind:

  • Spot the triggers which heighten your anger, frustration…
  • Breathe through potential confrontation
  • Train yourself to let go of resentment
  • Recognize that you have a choice between being more productive and diminishing returns
  • Learn to re-position yourself… away from confrontation

If you have found or find it difficult to create a calm disposition, let’s create it together.

I’m always here for you!

Paul

Distractions

It’s a given:

We tend to process information slower as we age. No surprise that we can’t remember a name, where our keys are, or our anniversary date. Everything from excess stress to diabetes, affects the blood vessels that feed our brain.

Don’t call it a disease:

It’s too simple and too easy to ignore the symptoms. Terms such as Alzheimer’s and other forms of dementia have many running scared. Reality is, we are so often consumed with excess pressure and distraction, we label rather than resolve.

Realization:

Recognize that distractions, excess pressure and over-thinking overwhelm us with excess information.

First Steps:

  • Learn to free up the “bytes” that you store in your brain for useful information. Filter out the distractions, over-thinking and ruminating.
  • Focus on your task at hand, with 100% input…then address your next task.
  • Give yourself a mental vacation: schedule breaks throughout your day to slow the overload. A little Mozart goes a long way!
  • Your blood and brain need glucose to function, especially under stress. Bring a healthy snack and consume at 10am and 2pm, so that you are providing your brain and body with nutrient dense energy every 2-3 hours, to help overcome fatigue.
  • Heavy meals require huge resources of energy for digestion. Portion control at those business lunches!

N.B.  A person may sustain or even improve information processing speed by paying close attention to vascular risk factors, engaging in regular aerobic exercise, eating well and continuing to challenge oneself intellectually. Keep focused, keep result-oriented and keep that brain of yours healthy and firing.                                                                                   –  Geoffrey A. Kerchner, assistant professor of neurology and neurological sciences at the Stanford University School of Medicine

Lead an extraordinary life,

Paul

The Executive Mindset

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“Age is an issue of mind over matter. If you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.”
– Francis Bacon, 16th Century English statesman & philosopher.

You need to mind, because it does matter!

For the 45-65 year old executive, if you are proactive you’ll avoid: pulmonary heart disease, cognitive impairment, episodic memory loss, high blood pressure, elevated cholesterol, heart attack, diabetes, depression and anxiety…

I lead by example

I’ll be 49 this year; 9 percent body fat and I’m just beginning my life. The foundation: nutrition, exercise, stress management and being passionate about what I do…

For whatever reason you are driven, do so and lead by example.

Walk the walk

Leading by example means identifying what it is that you are passionate about in life and don’t stop until you achieve it.

Tasks

  • Surround yourselves with like-minded positive people
  • Address how energetic you are when you wake of a morning
  • Ask yourself: What else can I do to enrich my life?
  • Take note of your energy throughout the day
  • Think remarkable; be remarkable. It’s a mindset!

Bottom line

In the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.
– Abraham Lincoln

Live healthy, Live long…

Executive Vitality

Strong active and energetic: Does this describe you throughout your day?

Your vitality is a telling part of the executives presence.

Stress  It’s “common courtesy” to wine and dine for many business meetings. Reality is, heavy meals recruit extra energy for metabolism and digestion.

Your day

From arriving at work to sitting at your desk all day, standing in the same spot to arriving by car for lunch, back to the office, to returning home of an evening…you are then ready to relax. The reality is: you’ve probably only taken 1000-2000 steps.

Go on the attack!

Get off your backside throughout your day. That 30-45 minutes of morning exercise is a good starting point, though it’s not a solution. Walk between meetings; use a treadmill desk; stand instead of sitting. Greater life expectancy…might just be in that extra            10-20 000 steps you commit to daily.

“Vitality shows not in not only the ability to persist but the ability to start over”- esteemed American esteemed American author, F. Scott Fitzgerald

Get Started…today!

Live healthy, live long.

Fight one more round…

“Fight one more round. When your feet are so tired that you have to shuffle back to the centre of the ring, fight one more round. When your arms are so tired that you can hardly lift your hands to come on guard, fight one more round. When your nose is bleeding and your eyes are black and you are so tired you wish your opponent would crack you one on the jaw and put you to sleep, fight one more round – remembering that the man who always fights one more round is never whipped.”    – James Corbett

Gentleman Jim was his nickname, a bare knuckles to gloves, former American World Heavyweight boxing champion. Gentleman Jim fought in the late 19th century. I received the framed quote from a client and friend a number of years back, hung it on my wall at work, and appreciated its raw simplicity, which still resonates.

The champion always fights one more round, as daunting as it might appear.  For James Corbett it was boxing…this is what he championed. For you, the executive, it’s not merely your profession. The true professional will champion everything that they put their mind to, knowing that they, in this case you, truly want to make a difference. It’s this mindset…the mindset of the champion, that keeps you pushing forward, through barriers, failures, obstacles, downturns in the economy… What has you swimming against the tide, producing results and conquering great heights is not doing for the sake of doing…as famed speaker and author Tony Robbins claims: “It’s not about your resources, it’s about your resourcefulness.” – Never losing sight of why and what you are doing. Not to lose sight means to be fully engaged. If you are not fully engaged you undoubtedly want to be there and you will…

What it will take:

  • Ask yourself: why am I doing what I am doing?
  • Ask yourself: what can breach the gap between where I am and where I will be in 6 months?
  • Qualify your endpoint objectives
  • Create the route to get you to those endpoint objectives
  • Start at the the start line
  • Never look back…

Be prepared to fight one more round, even if you feel wounded on the canvas. You’ve always got more to offer. Remember: “…the man (or woman) who always fights one more round is never whipped.” 

As daunting as it might appear at the time, you have to be excited about what you are doing, as no doubt the path forward is met with many obstacles.

Live Healthy, Live Long

Paul (Your International Health Coach)

As busy as you are, you don’t need to look through the world with these eyes…

“As a matter of self-preservation, a man needs good friends or ardent enemies, for the former instruct him and the latter take him to task.”

– Diogenes, Greek philosopher 4th century BCE.

Self-preservation is often something we address after the fact. Who has time for self-preservation when schedules need to be met, deals conquered, money to be made, people to meet and places to go? The aftermath…a potential “bloodbath”, after you’ve been beaten up by years of the same constant battle. For the executive, self-preservation can often be that elusive block or parry from the oncoming attack…until it’s too late. You turn around, your spouse has made off with your loot and you’ve aged 50 years, in the space of 2. This too often is the life of the formidable warrior. You’re driven and you’ve built a small empire…a few extra pounds around the mid-section, sleep apnea and chronic fatigue. Sure, success is a great place to be, but at what cost? Keep moving in this direction and you’ll find yourself 20 pounds over the limit with dark, heavy periorbital puffiness, or bags under your eyes (the weight of time). 

It should be natural instinct to protect yourself, you do so in business all the time. You’re a giant in planning, organizing, assessing, creating and completing the deal… What you might not be so good at is preserving your own health. This is where I step in and hold you accountable. I’m aware that some of you play squash or shoot hoops twice a week, golf when you can, or run on the odd occasion, though this doesn’t cut it. Sitting on your butt for endless hours a day, in front of your screen, in meetings, screaming at or being frustrated with incompetents is not preservation, and physiologically…it’s not even smart. Professionally, you’re a doer. This is what keeps you going, motivated, driven and thriving for more. Under this constant bombardment your building will shudder, as the foundation isn’t solid enough to support the momentum.

Recommendations:

  • Make one monumental decision to have a day off this month. Do whatever it is that you’ve always wanted to do, just don’t break anything.
  • Imagine a critical meeting and you are only half attending. When you schedule your 45-60 minutes of daily exercise apply yourself as if you are going in for the kill in the all important meeting, i.e. give it your all, without overtly hurting yourself.
  • 1 gallon of water a day is the recommendation, though not the rule. Our bodies vary, as do the rules for water consumption. Think and act hydration…it will keep your cells alive.
  • Pre-empt fatigue through self-preservation. It will offset the price of plastic surgery.

I’m both your good friend and ardent enemy…I’ll instruct you and take you to task. This is my passion and mission in life; yours is not simply to endure, it’s to preserve your pace, energy and momentum and come out on top…every step of the way.

Live Healthy; Live Longer

Stress…who needs it?

You’re all in extraordinary positions: go-getters; professional “artisans”; gifted; and talented. Every day you strive to embrace something new, leaving mediocrity, let’s just say…to the mediocre! In this extraordinary position you should be able to define: how you act; how you respond; how you interact; how you lead…Yet, there’s 1 sticking point that prevents your “flow”…Stress!

Stress can either be an enabler or disabler and only you can decide this. Optimal stress is a cure all for everything in life, as it keeps you performing at your peak and empowers you to take concrete steps forward. On the flip side of the coin, overthinking and excess stress (physical, physiological or mental) triggers a bunch of hormones which lowers your immune system and keeps you from maximizing your performance.

So what can you do?

Part genetic, part environmental, the way you respond to a situation is absolutely in your grasp. We are all wired differently and our responses might not always be ideal, yet our “connections” can be re-wired, as our brains are malleable. The next time that you feel like dressing someone down or responding to a situation with volatility, remember this: excess stress is a “contaminant”- repetitive (chronic) stress can cause sickness and chronic disease.

Take a chill pill:

Watch your reactions, it might just be the difference between rashes, the flu, high blood pressure, heart disease…and a healthier life with a number of years added on to boot.

Action steps:

  • Address the root causes for your stress. You know what the triggers are. If you don’t, it’s about time that you do.
  • Allow yourself! Stress is cumulative. To break the cycle, decompress with 15 minutes of classical music, which stimulates all areas of your brain. Don’t be so regimented, “turn off” for 15-30 minutes during the day, as your life is an endurance event. A designated break will have you function more productively.
  • Sitting is a “pain in the butt”. A stagnant body equates to a stagnant mind. Get out of your chair, be ridiculous, in front of your peers and dance, move…stimulate stagnant joints and blood.
  • Most importantly, watch how you respond to an adverse situation. You need to become more aware of your reactions by learning to respond: Process before you react, so you can respond. You are extraordinary as you have the ability to manipulate the way you respond and re-wire the way you function.

Optimize your stress and you enhance your performance. It’s your life, go out there and get it…and never look back.

Remember, it’s all about a Healthier, Longer Life and it’s yours for the taking.

Waking To A New Day

Facts:

  • 6-8 hours sleep is the recommendation for ideal daily performance
  • Your body requires sleep for cell growth and vital energy
  • Sleep deprivation causes poor judgement and can lead to serious health problems, such as heart disease and high blood pressure

Reality: 

Functioning at peak levels requires fine tuning. With your busy, erratic schedule…late night meetings, pressured deadlines…the hours slip away and you are left battling for those 6-8 hours of rejuvenating sleep. We’ve all done it: battling through the next day, drowsy yet driven; the day after…same, same. It’s not a major problem until it becomes chronic – irritability, elevated blood pressure, lack of concentration, argumentative, sickness, lower back pain.

So what to do?

Such a mediocre question for a champion. You are where you are because you’ve created yourself: a driven, thriving, mega-person. If you’re not, you soon will be and it will be all the difference between mediocrity and excellence.

Bottom line: 

Your brain is malleable! You have a never ending ability to change the way you act and function, at any given moment.

Wake to a new day – The how to approach:

It’s not just the length of your sleep that determines a fresh start, it’s the quality of your sleep. Erratic sleep is caused by: excess thoughts, rumination, blue wave light (a stimulant from electronics, such as computers used before sleep), a lightened room which affects your Circadian Rhythms (your internal body clock)…

So setting the scene for effective sleep is your goal for better performance:

  • Keep those dark shades up, blocking the outside light
  • Wind down before you sleep (not a bottle of wine). A little classical music and some deep breathing…I know, I know: you guys are thinking heavy breathing…you need a relaxant not stimulant.
  • No caffeine from late afternoon
  • Settle any arguments before you sleep
  • Plan your next day before you sleep

These few tips will add spring to your step when you waken the next morning. Your performance depends on it!

Live better; Live longer